When trying to make some other person to change the way he/she acts, it is always easier to change ourselves first to show them the way we want to see thing done, or to demonstrate the behavior we want to see. We attract others to change when we first change ourselves.
The changing process can be stimulated by two ways, the first, by using a persuasive power, in which the use of external sanctions is used to force the individual to change; the second one would be to show that individual that this change will bring benefits for him, as well as for the team or community he is at.
It is necessary to prove the individuals that a collaborative change process is a better way to go, in which they all try to reach a standard goal, leaving aside their own benefits, but looking for a more common benefit for the all group.
These changes sometimes will mean to make personal sacrifices, the vision of a collective growth is required as well, and individuals should seek for higher porpoise that theirs. Learn from mistakes is necessary, as well as being able to do what is right, not only because somebody else says so, but because they know that is the best course of action, this will allow the individual to see things in a different way, open the door to new possibilities, and new visions for a common good.
Doing the right thing and showing other individuals the changes oneself has done to improve itself, will take a hold in other, making the other change in a voluntary way, rather than forcing them to change. Also showing the best you have will encourage others to take action, and follow your steps.
In short, if you want someone to change, try to do it so by showing that person what the right thing to do is, lead by example and encourage that person to do the same, this will bring personal growth and at the same time will make each person a better person.
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